Get Foster Care Help in NE Oklahoma and NWA
If you need support, you are in the right place. Consider the Lilies serves families across Northeast Oklahoma and Northwest Arkansas, including foster families, biological families working toward reunification, and families who need help before a crisis escalates.
What happens when you contact a family support nonprofit?
The first step is simple. Reach out and tell us what is going on. You do not need perfect words. You do not need to have everything figured out. We will listen, ask a few questions, and help you identify practical next steps.
Foster care support, reunification support, and prevention support
If you are a foster parent, you might need help with basic needs, resources, or encouragement. If you are a biological parent, you might need help navigating barriers like transportation, stability, or connecting to local resources. If you are in a prevention situation, you might need support before things reach a breaking point.
Connecting you to resources and community support
We cannot promise we can meet every need directly, but we can promise we will treat you with dignity and do our best to help. If we cannot provide direct support, we will work to connect you to resources and organizations in your area.
Emergency and child safety resources
If you are in immediate danger or a crisis situation, please contact local emergency services. For urgent safety concerns involving a child, contact the appropriate local authorities.
If you're in immediate danger:
911
If you suspect child abuse or neglect, call the appropriate hotline for your state:
1-800-522-3511
Oklahoma DHS Abuse and Neglect Hotline
1-800-482-5964
Arkansas Child Abuse Hotline
If you or someone you love is experiencing a mental health crisis, call or text:
988
If you suspect human trafficking:
1-888-373-7888
Human Trafficking Hotline
or text BEFREE to 233733
If you need to report online exploitation or get help for a missing child:
1-800-843-5678
National Center for Missing and Exploited Children
If you need help finding treatment for substance use:
1-800-662-4357
SAMHSA National Helpline
If you are experiencing domestic violence and need confidential support:
1-800-799-7233
National Domestic Violence Hotline
If you're not in an emergency, contact us for:
Foster Family Support
Family Reunification
Community Support
FAQs for foster parents and biological parents
We know that this process is stressful and confusing, and we want to make it as easy as possible. These are some common questions we receive and what you could expect from an appointment. If you have more questions before you book an appointment, give us a call at (918) 931-3244.
When will you open?
We do not have an official opening date yet. We are hoping for the end of August.
How to get help?
Call (918) 931-3244 or fill out the form at the bottom of this page and tell us what is going on. We will help you figure out the next step and what resources are available.
Do I need an appointment?
Appointments are available on Tuesdays and Thursdays for visits made through referrals. If you are not sure whether you need an appointment, call and we will guide you.
What are Walk in Wednesdays?
Walk in Wednesdays are for self referrals. No appointment is needed.
What are your hours?
We are open Tuesdays and Thursdays by referral appointment, and Walk in Wednesday from 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM.
Is the resource closet open on all open days?
Yes. The resource closet is open to foster families on all three days!
Who can use the resource closet
The resource closet is available to foster families.
What do I need to bring to use the resource closet?
Please be ready to provide your social worker's name and phone number, the child's or children's age(s), whether the child or children are affiliated with any tribe, and your county and state.
Can I bring the child or children with me?
Yes. We encourage foster families to bring the child or children so they can shop together!
What should I do if a child is in immediate danger?
Call 911 right away. You can also use the emergency and child safety resources listed on this page.
Fundraisers & Events for Foster Families
We want to make resources as available as possible for our community. If you're a foster family or someone affected by the foster care system, we have community events throughout the year for you.
